
In order to have happy and meaningful relationships we need to be able to recognise healthy and unhealthy behaviours.
Healthy behaviours in teenage relationships
Unhealthy behaviours in teenage relationships
What to do if there are unhealthy behaviours in my relationship?
How to end a relationship?

Healthy behaviours in teenage relationships
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Unhealthy behaviours in teenage relationships
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What to do if there are unhealthy behaviours in my relationship?
Consider talking to the other person in the relationship
- If you think your relationship is unhealthy, you should consider talking about it with that person. Sometimes by talking out your feelings and making changes to how you treat each other things can be fixed.
- If you’ve tried talking and things aren’t getting better or you feel unsafe or scared to talk, it might be time to end the relationship. It can be hard, but you deserve healthy relationships, with people who treat you with respect.
Get someone else’s point of view
- If you aren’t sure who to talk to, think about a person you trust and feel comfortable being around - who is a good listener, and always has your best interests at heart?
- Feeling like you’ve identified the right person to talk to can give you the confidence you need to open up.
- If you need additional emotional support and advice, and are under 19 years of age, you can contact Childline online at childline.org.uk or via phone on 0800 1111.
How to end a relationship?
- Plan
- What you want to say. Try to explain what you are feeling but remember to clearly say that you want to end the relationship.
- Where you’ll meet. Pick a neutral place to meet where there are other people around.
- How you’ll get home safely after meeting. Let a friend or family member know where you’re going & when they can expect you back.
- Look after yourself
- After a breakup, make sure you spend time doing things that make you feel good like your favourite hobbies, or seeing your best friends!
- Remember it’s not your fault
- The other person should respect your decision.
- If you feel pressured or threatened talk to a trusted adult.
Remember! A positive relationship is based on open and honest communication, trust, respect and compassion. It has healthy boundaries that allow you to be who you are, do what you like and spend time with your friends and family.
Pay attention to unhealthy behaviours in your relationship such as power and control, disrespect and the use of physical force and ask for help if needed.
